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My name’s Pranet Swain. I regularly try to interview local residents with personal perspectives on Aurora’s housing shortage that are usually hard to thoughtfully share through our crowded town hall meetings. I regularly meet interviewees while sitting in on local town hall meetings, volunteering at local homeless shelters, as well as through email request. While I usually stick to publishing interviews with those currently at risk of eviction or homelessness, the publication does include some conversations with those with different perspectives on the crisis. As a disclaimer, all conversations are condensed for clarity and some names have been altered for privacy upon request.

1/5/23 – Lucy Menendez

Welcome. Today, we’re delving into an issue that’s become increasingly urgent in communities across the nation: the struggle for single parents to secure affordable housing. But before we explore the broader implications, I understand you have a personal story that brought these challenges into sharp focus for you. Could you share that with us?

Thank you for having me. Yes, my journey into the heart of the affordable housing crisis as a single parent began nearly five years ago. Following a divorce, I found myself suddenly needing to provide a stable home for my two children on a single income. At the time, I was working a job that, while fulfilling, did not offer the financial robustness needed to easily secure housing in our community, especially given the rising costs and competitive market. The search for a home that was both affordable and suitable for a family of three was daunting. There were countless times when I thought I’d found a potential home, only to be outbid or find the rent raised beyond my reach.

This experience opened my eyes to the systemic barriers single parents face in finding affordable housing—a challenge compounded by the need for proximity to schools, work, and childcare. It wasn’t just about finding a place to live; it was about finding a community where my children could thrive despite our changed circumstances.

Your experience highlights a critical, yet often overlooked, aspect of the housing crisis. How do you see these personal challenges reflecting broader systemic issues related to affordable housing for single parents?

My personal challenges are a microcosm of the broader systemic issues that plague single parents seeking affordable housing. For one, the financial strain of single parenthood—coupled with the gender wage gap that often affects women, who make up a large percentage of single parents—is a significant barrier. There’s also the issue of housing stock; so much of what’s available and affordable is not designed with families in mind. Many affordable housing options are smaller units in areas far removed from quality schools and safe, child-friendly amenities.

Additionally, the application process for affordable housing can be incredibly daunting. The bureaucracy, long waiting lists, and often discriminatory practices by landlords—whether intentional or not—further complicate access. For single parents, who are already balancing the demands of work and family, navigating these barriers can feel insurmountable.

Considering these interconnected challenges, what solutions or changes do you believe are necessary to improve access to affordable housing for single parents?

Improving access to affordable housing for single parents requires a multi-faceted approach. Firstly, there needs to be an increase in the affordable housing stock that caters specifically to the needs of families, with considerations for space, safety, and proximity to schools and childcare centers. Policy changes can incentivize the development of such housing through tax credits or subsidies for developers who prioritize family-friendly units.

Another critical area is the support system for single parents. This includes not only financial assistance but also counseling and guidance through the housing search and application process. Community organizations can play a huge role here, offering resources and advocacy to navigate the often complex landscape of affordable housing.

Furthermore, addressing the root causes of the affordable housing crisis—such as the wage gap, employment instability, and the high cost of childcare—can significantly impact single parents’ ability to secure and maintain housing. Policies aimed at economic equity and support for working families are crucial.

Lastly, combating discrimination in housing—whether based on family status, income source, or any other factor—is essential. Strengthening and enforcing fair housing laws to protect single parents from discriminatory practices can help ensure that access to housing is based on equal opportunity.

As we look toward the future, what message do you hope to convey to the community and policymakers about the importance of addressing affordable housing for single parents?

The message I want to convey is one of urgency and compassion. The struggle for single parents to secure affordable housing is not just an economic issue; it’s a matter of human dignity and the well-being of our children. Every child deserves a stable home, and every parent should have the means to provide that without facing insurmountable barriers.

To policymakers, I urge a holistic view of affordable housing that considers the unique challenges of single-parent families. It’s not enough to increase the housing stock; we must ensure that housing policies are inclusive, equitable, and supportive of the diverse needs of all families.

To the community, I encourage empathy and action. Support local initiatives aimed at housing affordability, advocate for policy changes, and consider the impact of community support systems in making housing accessible for single parents.

Thank you for sharing your story and insights with us. Your perspective sheds light on the crucial intersection of family dynamics and housing insecurity, reminding us of the collective effort needed to build a more inclusive and supportive community.

Thank you for the opportunity to discuss this important issue. I’m hopeful that by raising awareness and working together, we can create meaningful change for single parents and their children, ensuring access to affordable housing and a stable foundation for every family.

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